Saturday, 11 June 2011
Weddings. We haven't been able to get away from one in particular that happened back in April, that doesn't bother me though, I love them with a capital L. However, as everyone knows, preceding that romantic event of exchanging vows while staring into your loved one's eyes lies a much darker, albeit scarier event.....the Hen Night.

I hate Hen nights. Having lived in Edinburgh and Newcastle has only encouraged this hatred. Why the hell would you want to walk around a city wearing an "L" plate on your back and your Granny's net curtain on your head? Of course some Hens don't stop there. There's matching sashes, inflatable genitals and the slogan t-shirts. I don't need to know if you're Slapper Susan or Booby Brenda and I certainly don't want to know if you're the Mother of the Bride when you're gyrating on your knees in a nightclub.

Hen nights in a way only remind me of what I haven't got. A husband-to-be waiting in the wings. Fate really seems to be teasing me with that one and as I got ready for a very good friend's hen party I consoled myself to the fact that the note I'd left MOB had either disintegrated by the forces of nature or by the man himself.

The Hen night I was attending was being held in a place called Aviemore which apparently is a haven for Hen and Stag parties. I did not know this but then why would I? Hen nights were not my thing. Thankfully this was my lovely friend's second marriage and there had been strict instructions that there would be no tackiness. So it was a surprise when I walked into the hotel bar to find my lovely friend with an "L" plate on her back, "veil" on her head and a pink feather bower round her neck. I was quickly supplied with a pair of black sparkly horns for my head and bowing to peer pressure put the ghastly things on.

I had decided that I wouldn't drink as I had no where to stay and would just drive home. All the other girls were staying in hotels but I just felt that I couldn't afford it. With Glastonbury Festival around the corner I needed to save up all my money so I could sleep in a sleeping bag in a field, having not washed for days. Not drinking at a Hen night was unheard of though and it was only a matter of time before I was offered a hotel room floor for the night. I immediately ordered a Vodka and Tonic at the bar.

We ended up in a bar which was so full of men that you could almost taste the testosterone. It suddenly became apparent to me that perhaps I'd been a little hasty. Men very rarely come and speak to me unless it's to tell me to "smile, it'll never happen". Although The Ace once said to me that this may have been an attempt at a chat up line. Maybe it was the sparkly horns or the fact that I was wearing shoes reminiscent of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz but gradually men began to speak to me and some of them actually looked alright.

We moved into the downstairs area in the bar which transformed into a nightclub which had about 4 other people in it but it didn't take long for it to fill up and suddenly I found myself shouting to the DJ for Heaven 17's "Temptation". I'd held off from the dance floor as it had been the usual shit charty dance music but as soon as I heard the synthesizing opening tones preceding Martin Fry's voice I was squeezing past people to get near to the hen party on the dance floor. Out of nowhere appeared a tallish young guy with a beard and we proceeded to take over the dance floor swirling, twirling and generally acting like a couple of tits. But hey, I was having fun and seemed obvlivious to the fact that I may have caused injury to the person whose face I elbowed in the process.

Unsurprisingly I took the time out after that dance and went to the bar to "re-hydrate". With yet another Vodka and Tonic in one hand I used my other to wave in front of my face in a bid to cool myself down. I looked to my right and saw a dark haired bloke standing beside me.
"It's so hot in here" I shouted.
"What?"
I waved my hand harder in front of my face hoping that my pathetic sign language for a fan gave him a clue as to what I'd just said.
The bearded guy reappeared and seemed to know the dark haired bloke who was trying to interpret my bizarre hand movements. It turned out they were part of a stag party up from Glasgow.
"He's one of the nicest guys you could meet," bearded guy said. "Are you single?"
I didn't need long to think about that question and before I knew it dark haired guy had introduced himself as Graham and was buying me a drink. The rest of the Hen Party began to leave the club and I made sure that I got a note of the room that I was meant to be gatecrashing.

We chatted at the bar for a bit. It turned out that we both had connections with the Islands but it was difficult to have a decent conversation with horrendous chart music pumping in the background. As I tried to make sense of what Graham was saying I found myself appraising him. Yes, he had dark hair and great teeth but aside from that, he didn't have the other qualities I was looking for in a guy. However, these omissions didn't prevent me from allowing him to walk me back to the hotel I was staying at. During the walk he decided to show me a scar he had on his chest, it wasn't long before I wished that he hadn't as it exposed a belly that I really didn't want to see. Even in the twighlight I could tell that this wasn't going to be a body that I wanted to get my hands on. Yet once again, on arrival at the hotel I found myself snogging Graham, well, it's part and parcel of a good Hen night isn't it? We swapped numbers and I went into the hotel to find my floor to camp down on.

Unfortunately I got confused by the room numbers and in a panic phoned my friend but there was no answer and there was only so long that I could wander around a hotel at 4 in the morning that I hadn't paid to stay in. In a moment of drunken desperation I decided to run back out of the hotel in the hope of catching up with Graham. It wasn't ideal but I needed to find somewhere to sleep.

"Hey, where you going?"

I was so focussed on trying to run in my Dorothy heels without falling over that I hadn't noticed a couple of stragglers from the Hen party walking up the steep road to the hotel. It was such a relief to see them and even more of a relief when they mentioned that they had a spare bed in their hotel room that I could sleep in - result.

In the morning I got up and walked into the restaurant of the hotel, sat down and ordered breakfast much to the amusement of the rest of the Hen party. I wasn't once asked for my room number or how I was intending to pay for my accommodation. And as for Graham, we had a brief text conversation later that day but who was I kidding, no matter how good his teeth were, I still needed more than one box ticked on my list to even consider giving up my single life.

2 comments:

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Jonathan smith said...

Hen parties are increasing year by year. A very long time ago it was started and it's becoming more and more fun.

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